Trauma Bonding
Patrick Carnes's term for the strong attachment formed when intermittent reinforcement (love-bombing alternating with punishment) is paired with perceived inability to leave. The single most common reason members stay through obvious harm.
How it looks in practice
Trauma bonding is the member who can describe in clinical detail the abuse they experienced inside a group and still finds themselves powerfully drawn back to it years after exit. Carnes documented the same dynamic in domestic-violence and trafficking survivors — high-control religious / political / wellness contexts produce structurally similar attachment patterns.
BITE-model connection
Emotional control — the deepest mechanism by which BITE practices produce loyalty that survives exit. Recovery from trauma bonding typically requires trauma-informed therapy with a clinician familiar with cult dynamics; the CLCI Resources page lists relevant therapist directories.
Related terms
Groups in the dataset that reference Trauma Bonding
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